Hi Colin & Neil,
As I have the Dorking registers (1538-1840 baps & burials) & Holmwood 1838-1840) I can confirm the baptism of Edward at Holmwood. 'Edward son of John Okeshot of Dorking, waiter & Elizabeth Charman of Holmwood, maidservant, 25/12/1838'.
From the West Surrey burial Index - Elizabeth Lucas - - 1849 age 32, Holmwood.
1851 census - Holmwood. HO107/1598/159/7
John Charman head 56 ag lab born Capel
Mary wife 57 born Leigh
James son unm 25 ag lab born Dorking
Edward unm son 13 scholar born Dorking
And look who's next door! (same ref)
Henry Lucas wid 34 ag lab
Joshua? son 8
George son 6
Emma dau 2
Maria Dudley serv wid 72?
1861 - Holmwood RG9/440/11/5
Henry Lucas mar 45 ag lab
Susan wife 35
Emma dau 12
Henry son 7
Mary Ann 5
James 4
William WEST stepson 12
John, Mary & Edward are next door as Alli gave on his/her posting, so I think the evidence is overwhelming that it's all the same Edward even though he's down as, ' son' on earlier census.
If anyone wants Charman look-ups for Capel or Dorking, just let me know,
Jane