Hiya Pat,
Wonderful to here from you

I have a number of images that I can send you - please PM me your email and I'll send them to you.
Primarily I found Jane's marriage (1859) to James which lists all the parents. While I was at the GROS in Edinburgh I looked up a few births of their children to confirm the 1881 census entry is them...and it was.
66 Lauriston Place, Edinburgh
James Aitchison M 43 Head Edinburgh Cattle Dealer
Jane Aitchison M 43 Wife Kirknewton, Edinburgh
Robert Aitchison 16 Son Crammond, Edinburgh Butcher
Elizabeth Aitchison 14 Dau Crammond, Edinburgh General Servant
Margaret Aitchison 12 Dau Crammond, Edinburgh Scholar
Thomas Aitchison 9 Son Dalkeith, Edinburgh Scholar
Charles Aitchison 5 Son Dalkeith, Edinburgh
George Aitchison 3 Son Dalkeith, Edinburgh
William Aitchison 2m Son Dalkeith, Edinburgh