Hi again...
That's a nuisance.
The NZSG Cemetery CD has only 590-ish records for Upper Wairau (taken from microfiche N02.24). I was hoping that the website having 800-ish records would be more helpful.
The CD does have 1300-ish entries that mention the word
"Wairau" so maybe your name might be mentioned there.
If you don't mind posting a name you can always start a new thread on the main NZ board. You've posted to an old thread on the "Completed Threads" board. People mainly keep an eye out for new threads on the main NZ board.
Assuming you're logged in, to start a new thread just...
Click on the big blue "New Topic" button next to the "New Poll" button...http://www.rootschat.com/forum/new-zealand/Actually it's more teal than blue but who's counting :-)
Good luck
Beg