SUE, MADDY and NEALE,
So many thanks for your care and understanding of some my stumbling efforts. I hope that I have learnt a little over recent decades! And please forgive my thoughtful ramble below.
As I recently spotted a person that I had never heard of, I resolved to rebuild all of my RIPPINGILLE family tree and with the the help of you good fellows at Rootschat, I have found that it is a far from a simple task and with a surprising number of bear-traps along the way. It is soon apparent that it is impossible to just concentrate upon one person, without at the same time revisiting their context in the rest of the family!
As we know to our expense, that family stories and myths are regularly found to contain much mis-information or even fibs that cover up some shame and that distort any attempts towards the realities and the inaccuracies of our family stories.
Perhaps, that even with our desire to record an intellectualy prove-able accuracy, it is the stories and the imaginations of the ancestors that remains even more fascinating. His-tory is never just about a mathematical spreadsheet.
Other branches of my family are riddled with an arbitary name-changing on the part of the parents. Changes even on the short journey beween baptism and Civil Registration of their children. This name changing tendency has infiltrated the self-concept of most members of the large sibling group, so that these variable versions of their self identity have been past down to several further generations along with further distortions and fantasy story-telling.
Perhaps, my interest in family genealogy is driven by my futile attempts to resolve some of the contradictions found in my own existance. Too many fluid identities and less able to maintain a single focus amonst so many interesting yet different versions.
And then after all our hard work, we die, leaving very little impact upon the universal attraction of myth and fantasy. Such is the similar uphill task to support rationality and a scientific approach when story-telling remains a vivid part of our mental evolution!