Thoughts on why this would happen please

[Milliepede]

Possible death in 1901 Lambeth.

1881 again in London as a domestic St Geo Hanover Square - Buckingham Palace Road no less.

Is that likely though if she was elsewhere in 1883 on a workhouse record

[flower fairy]

I dont think she was in the workhouse in 1883, i can only see that she left 2 of her children there 

This gives me so much more to work on. Thank you again.

[Kay99]

Marriage

21 May 1898 -  Parish of Goodworth Clatford, Southampton
Harriet Banks age 51 - Widow - Father Charles Hill - Weaver -
Spouse    
Henry Hayter age 53  Widower Water Keeper Father    Thomas Haytor - Gardener

[flower fairy]

Ooohh ok. That's interesting.  Thank you. Lots to go over now   

[Kay99]

1901 Living at Goodworth Clatford and still there in 1911/21

Henry Hayter  57  B Southampton  Water Keeper Gamek?
Harriet Hayter    53    Wife b Trowbridge, Wilts

Added - in 1921 her second name is listed as Maria

[Kay99]

 HAYTER, HARRIETT  MARIA      83 
GRO Ref: 1931  M Qrter DROXFORD  Vol 02C  Page 245

[flower fairy]

Thank you so much for your help.

Lots to digest now 

[flower fairy]

It is looking very much like Harriet remarried Henry Hayter but still struggling to figure out why 1 child would have been put into the care of a much older woman many miles away from the rest of the family.
  On the 1881 cenus, Mabel was living with Christiana Champion in Curry Rivel. Could she have paid or been paid to do this, And were such things advertised?

Thanks again for any thoughts on this.

[Kay99]

In  1871 Christiana and her husband had two nurse children with living with them and both children were born in London.   

As Harriet was working in London could the Champions have been recommended to her as reliable by someone living in London??