After working my way through all the links and searching further I have come up with:
Willus Harmer c1655 and Elizabetha Payne marry 23-06-1679 at Swafield, Norfolk.
They have children:
Elizabetha Harmer, bap 13-05-1680, Swafield
Willus Harmer, bap 23-08-1682, Swafield
Sara Harmer, b 21-01-1682, bap 04-02-1682, Swafield, † buried 07-08-1690, Swafield
Johes Harmer, bap 25-01-1684, Swafield
Nicholaus Harmer, b 16-01-1688, bap 20-01-1688, Swafied
Sara Harmer, bap 17-08-1691, Swafield
Ricardus Harmer, bap 12-09-1693, Swafield
Diana Harmer, b11-08-1695, bap 16-08-1695, Swafield
So This must be the John (Johes) Harmer we have been looking for
