Is the pictured gravestone my 4x grandfather?

[Antony1977]

Would anyone be able to confirm if the gravestone pictured is of my 4x great grandfather ?

I would only consider myself a basic family history researcher so could do with someone with a better knowledge casting an eye.

My research is on the ancestry screen shot ( my account is titled Antony Deaves if you wish to look)

Thomas Deaves
B:2 May 1797 England
D:Oct 1861 Shrewsbury, Shropshire, England

Married
Sarah Cartwright on 15/12/1817 at St Chads Shrewsbury

B:February 1798 Shrewsbury Shropshire, England
D:1872 Shrewsbury, Shropshire, England

I have just found the gravestone on a website , the death year is the same as what I have (1861 )  but I have his month of death as Oct ( but I don’t know where I got that from) , whereas the only death cert I can find for a Thomas Deaves has it as 13/12/1861 - notified by Margaret Gough ( daughter according to the gravestone entry)

On the children from the marriage , I have Margaret Deaves ( but no dobs or death date at all) so could be her

I’m assuming Gough was her married name

I have a George Deaves in my tree
B:1833 Shrewsbury, St Mary
D:9 Jan 1870 Shropshire, England

but the gravestone says died 24th May 1873

Gravestone says Margaret Gough died Aug 31st 1864

I would love to confirm if the pictured gravestone is my relative so I can pay my respects and put some flowers down.

I can’t post the gravestone pic

Here’s the link to it

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/233073605/thomas-deaves

[rosie99]

Marriage Sep qtr 1850   
Deaves    Margaret       
Gough    Samuel       
Shrewsbury RD    18   207

[Kay99]

The GRO death index listed her age as 40 when she died in 1864

GOUGH, MARGARET     40 
GRO Ref 1864  Sept Qrter  SHREWSBURY  Vol 06A  Page 443

And there is this marriage to a Samuel Gough (which Rosie posted)

Margaret Deaves
Marriage 15 Sep 1850  Saint Chad, Shrewsbury
Father    Thomas Deaves
Spouse    Samuel Gough

[heywood]

It looks good.

Margaret Deaves married Samuel Gough in 1850.

England Select Marriages 15th September 1850 St Chad, Shrewsbury
Margaret Deaves, father Thomas Deaves
Samuel Gough

Baptism St Alkmunds, Shrewsbury
13th March 1825 - birth 20th Feb 1825
Margaret Deaves - parents Thomas and Sarah

[Antony1977]

Marriage Sep qtr 1850   
Deaves    Margaret       
Gough    Samuel       
Shrewsbury RD    18   207

Thank you very much

[Antony1977]

It looks good.

Margaret Deaves married Samuel Gough in 1850.

England Select Marriages 15th September 1850 St Chad, Shrewsbury
Margaret Deaves, father Thomas Deaves
Samuel Gough

Baptism St Alkmunds, Shrewsbury
13th March 1825 - birth 20th Feb 1825
Margaret Deaves - parents Thomas and Sarah

Thanks for the help

[Antony1977]

The GRO death index listed her age as 40 when she died in 1864

GOUGH, MARGARET     40 
GRO Ref 1864  Sept Qrter  SHREWSBURY  Vol 06A  Page 443

And there is this marriage to a Samuel Gough (which Rosie posted)

Margaret Deaves
Marriage 15 Sep 1850  Saint Chad, Shrewsbury
Father    Thomas Deaves
Spouse    Samuel Gough

Brilliant thanks