Thank you every one for the messages and advice.

Yes Galium the one that went to Canada has the same birth date as the one that disappeared from London around 1892 but the birth year is different. That is one of the main paper trail reasons i think i have the correct man. Cannot find a marriage for them and cannot find them on shipping records. Census records info differs one census to the next. My mum has multiple DNA matches via 2 of their children that i have been able to connect but i still have 4 second cousin DNA matches in this cluster that i cannot connect.

Honestly this family is so messy.
Skeleton in every cupboard.

DNA is an amazing thing and i would not have known any of this except for mums DNA test.