Wow Ciderdrinker you know your stuff,that's made my day.I think you have solved it.my cousins so called mother's mother was called Stella.And am pretty sure when I saw her the other week she said Stella was adopted.,So her first cousin was not on my heritage,it was her first cousins daughter,just found this out,so this is showing that he isn't anyway, Could my heritage have it wrong? I've sent away for Lauras marriage certificate to Ernest Beer, hopefully get some answers there as well,thank you so much.