I think I am going round in circles - need another brain!!!
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My g4-grandfather's grave (on Findagrave.com) in Weston, near Spalding, has the following headstone inscription:
"William Cordley died 8 Feb 1809 aged 49 years
Also Sarah Ogden his relict died 30 April 1824 aged 79 years"
ie William born abt 1759 and Sarah b abt 1745 (although the last digit of 1824 is indistinct)
I have a marriage of William Cordley to Sarah Barns
Place Sutton St Edmund - Parish Register
Marriage date 13 Aug 1781
Groom forename William
Groom surname CORDLY
Groom parish Weston
Bride forename Sarah
Bride surname BARNS
Bride parish Sutton St Edmunds
and then (after his death in 1809) his Admon papers names Sarah as his widow and executor.
There is a marriage of Sarah Cordley to Christopher Ogden for Sep 1824
Place Weston St Mary - Parish Register
Marriage date 01 Sep 1824
Groom forename Christopher
Groom surname OGDEN
Groom parish Pinchbeck
Groom condition Widower
Bride forename Sarah
Bride surname CORDLEY
Bride condition Widow
But this marriage is after the death date for Sarah Ogden on the gravestone.
On FreeReg there is a burial for a Sarah Ogden on 5th May 1841 in Weston St Marys with age 79 (ie b 1762); but I cannot find an entry in the GRO index for a death relating to her.
I think I must be muddling up two Sarah's , but I have gone back and checked - without success.
If anyone has some time to examine this and point out where I have gone wrong I would be so grateful.
Pam