Thank you one and all for your input.
I had a play with the WATO tool and I love the way it generates hypotheses but the results it gave me are wild. The first tree I tried it complained that there was nobody over 40 cM, I Wish !, in total on the maternal side I only have 11 dna matches over 40 cM, 8 of which are placed and only 1 in the unknown group. So I tried the tree with the Unknown at 56 cM, unfortunately sparser than the other, and as its most likely hypothesis it suggested 6 generations between 1874 and 1955, with lesser results even worse. I know a lot of people use this so I need to look at how best to present my data to it so I get sensible results.
The suggestion by Carmella was interesting also and possibly the most applicable as it was UK focused and understood that a lot fewer people test here. The chap who wrote it has a book out which I've just bought on Kindle but it's 500 pages so that might take a while to read.
I have a copy of "Genetic Genealogy in Practice" by Blaine Bettinger, which was useful originally but doesn't offer any help in this regard.
There's a new edition of the Graham Holton book out which I'm planning to get when they produce a Kindle version.
A few people mentioned drilling down to find candidates to test. Am I to understand you just find people who haven't tested but would likely be useful and write them a letter or something ? Does this actually get results ? I can't even get people who have already tested to reply !
I think in reality I'm just going to end up back at the waiting game as Biggles said. I've been at this five years now since the dna test, and fifteen before that and I thought I had enough, but it's not looking good.