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My parents had a large photo album with notes under each photo, and quite regularly I would ask my mother to get it out and she'd tell me who each person was. "That's my cousin Bob"; who during my research found was Robert Halliday S...,..g ". Mother was one of three sisters who met every week for a cup of tea and a bun. Their conversations often mentioned a specific surname "The B........s", which was a large clue that a widow with children had married into my family.
One sunny day in 1961 my mother mentioned that two of my male cousins were researching their family trees and asked me if I was thinking of researching my family tree. I obviously wasn't interested as I gave a negative answer and carried on living my quite busy life. Years later when those male cousins left home my aunt excitedly told me that her son had discovered that earlier paternal generations had owned a castle and a village!!! I took up family history after I retired when I learnt that my maternal grandmother's oldest brother had been killed in WWI and I hadn't known about him, although I'd seen his photograph on an older relative's wall. I might have felt a tad proud when I passed around names and documentation of our maternal grandmother's European mainland paternal ancestry, which was only due to the advent of the computer and the World Wide Web, which wasn't available when my cousins were driving around England visiting many registration offices looking at their records.. . None of my list of helpful free websites are now functioning.
Aberdeen: Findlay-Shirras,McCarthy: MidLothian: Mason,Telford,Darling,Cruikshanks,Bennett,Sime, Bell: Lanarks:Crum, Brown, MacKenzie,Cameron, Glen, Millar; Ross: Urray:Mackenzie: Moray: Findlay; Marshall/Marischell: Perthshire: Brown Ferguson: Wales: McCarthy, Thomas: England: Almond, Askin, Dodson, Well(es). Harrison, Maw, McCarthy, Munford, Pye, Shearing, Smith, Smythe, Speight, Strike, Wallis/Wallace, Ward, Wells;Germany: Flamme,Ehlers, Bielstein, Germer, Mohlm, Reupke