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Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts?
« on: Tuesday 15 April 25 10:02 BST (UK) »
Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts, noticing that a small payment is also available. Was this a common phrase?   This cutting is from 1939, London.

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Re: Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts?
« Reply #1 on: Tuesday 15 April 25 10:12 BST (UK) »
I think adopting for 'love only' would mean raising the child as your own, without payment.

The alternative would be like fostering where a contribution would be made towards the child's care.
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Re: Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts?
« Reply #2 on: Tuesday 15 April 25 10:18 BST (UK) »
A History of Adoption in England and Wales 1850-1961 By Gill Rossini, published 2014 (seen at archive.org) only contains one instance of the phrase "love only" under a specific case which is used to contrast with cases of theft and trading in babies, and in passing defines it as "no money was to be exchanged".
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Re: Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts?
« Reply #3 on: Tuesday 15 April 25 11:46 BST (UK) »
There is a saying "not for love nor money" - implying that the two were opposites. Usually in relation to goods, or services. As in "A good gardener is not to be had for love nor money." 

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Re: Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts?
« Reply #4 on: Tuesday 15 April 25 12:10 BST (UK) »
As these adverts were 1939 I am surprised by them - thought adoption became official and regulated in 1926.  Does this imply that there were still adoptions that went under the radar?

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Re: Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts?
« Reply #5 on: Tuesday 15 April 25 12:41 BST (UK) »
Perhaps the process of finding prospective adoptive parents was unofficial (and might involve payment) but the subsequent finalisation of the adoption had to go through the official channels.
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Re: Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts?
« Reply #6 on: Tuesday 15 April 25 12:55 BST (UK) »
Returning to the book that I referenced in reply #2 , apparently there was a Parliamentary Committee appointed in 1936 to look into adoption agencies, which led to the production of the Horsburgh Report.

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It was found that informal adoption was still very much practised, despite the 1926 Act and the increasing popularity of legal adoption, and it is surprising to read that some adoptions arranged by adoption societies were in fact not legalised – in one society there was an instance of only 30% actually going through the courts, all the rest remained informal with all the disadvantages that entailed.
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Re: Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts?
« Reply #7 on: Tuesday 15 April 25 13:07 BST (UK) »
Casting around to find the extent of the practice intrigued to note some appeared under the Column headed "Miscellaneous Wants".
Also spotted a court case where the adopter was advertising prepared to"adopt with payment" and a couple of weeks after receiving the child offering him/her for "adoption Love only".

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Re: Can anyone explain the phrase 'love only' in these two adverts?
« Reply #8 on: Tuesday 15 April 25 13:11 BST (UK) »
Thank you for these replies. They have been very informative. I am surprised I had never come across the expression before, being interested in family history, and also just generally browsing old newspapers, especially the small adverts. I hope this thread runs and runs.

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