So this is her
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QLSQ-XLQT?lang=en.
Neil's death (have you checked if this has any information on his place of birth?)
DEATH OF AN EX-POLICE Te «.. INSPECTOR. 8 death is announced of Mr Neil McIntyre, former member of the Sunderland
... DEATH OF AN EX-POLICE Te «.. INSPECTOR. 8 death is announced of Mr Neil McIntyre, former member of the Sunderland borough — force, Mr McIntyre joined the force as a on July 17th, 1840. He was made a Se nt in August, 1846, sub-inspector on | ber 11th, ...
Published: Monday 17 August 1891
Newspaper: Sunderland Daily Echo and Shipping Gazette
County: Durham, England