Just an update.
Found the death of John Michael Queen in November 1901 of Collier Lane, age 38 in the Carlisle Journal, but the Census has him as Quinn and the GRO on his death.
I received the marriage certificate of his widow wife marrying, 1902,Mary Quinn and John Wooler, which does say that her father is James Barnes,deceased, General Labourer, it was difficult to read as Quinn or Queen.
That still puts me with my John Barnes (Groom/General labourer) who is living with with Mary at Collier Lane,as her brother, but on his marriage certicate 1903, with his father listed as (John Barnes, deceased, Nursey Gardner)
Thank you everyone who tried to help.