Hi cath 151,
After a frustrating search, not being familiar with the setup, I was able to locate the two articles you had mentioned. The 1997 article (photo) also confirmed why Alfred Lowther died at such a young age! It seems that he did accept the MM, which was in his son's possession, and why it is shown on his grave.
We don't know how fortunate we are in NZ that ALL nationwide newspapers from the first issues mid-19h Century, until the 1990's, are digitalised and FREE to access. As should all newspapers worldwide! TROVE in Australia is also free.
Thank you for your help, much appreciated. Regards.
Printer.