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Re: death certificate small to read
« Reply #27 on: Tuesday 13 May 25 12:51 BST (UK) »
that makes me smile, thanking you. There's much I want to know research wise but often struggle to order a lust of important questions. so unsure what your offer includes! sorry if I sound stupid, awkward. one thing I keep wishing to find out is circumstances at end of Reginald Stanley Coville Hallewell life. After grandma Ethel Mary Hallewell ne Knowles died 1969 in Birmingham the chemist shut forever as she had the registration and degree.
They'd been living in a nice detached or semi which mum and I went looking at in 2010s. significant as she left home and married a chap whose family had returned from their life in India owning tea business. he had an Indian father who won a card game, the.man he beat paid with his wife for a night!
anyway sorry I can't recall words i need. Grandad Reginald died 1974 I'm a poor man's tiny bedsit in Stratford upon Avon.  Fairbridge visited it after each of his paralysing strokes. mum only learned he was dead years later from his younger siblings visiting unexpected with.regs suitcase.  there is in mum's diaries mention of trying to see Hugh, a brother,  8n London but think lack of phone working prevented mum's trip to London seeing Hugh.  only just read the diary but mum sadly died 2016.
So sorry my paternal grandmother frim Cork.  think  got Irish way of avoiding scary possible truths.
Point I wonder. why and who made him travel to South Africa for heart surgery in 1970? was in newspaper when he died and I have photo of Reg and more patients in ward.  is Christian  Barnard hospital the famous fir first human heart transplant surgery. any ideas how it can find out more please? Thankyou.

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« Reply #28 on: Tuesday 13 May 25 14:17 BST (UK) »
hope not too much annoying but if I seem ungrateful I'm sorry. think emotional baggage from unkind institutional responsibility decisions have given families like ours a disproportionate disadvantage to function like average families,, like our peers in school,  workplace and neighbourhood. oh and I compare my extended family relatives who come down the line which didn't take the fallout of British Child emigration policy's most extreme adverse outcomes.
Understand most prefer to reject this as you describe "dark period of Australian history" .  I don't know of other British policy that had such a vast effect on our country and the security of its average population. This no doubt changes the path of history.  Did the decision makers including uk and Australian government and its local governments (including the law courts who rubber stamped the legal transfer of child ownership from the families to the state, who paid subcontractors eg Fairbridge child emigration society, one of fifty of these bodies responsible  for hundreds of thousands of insecure vulnerable due to sudden death of a parent etc,  children being "stolen " for good, by betraying families to feel it was a beneficial sacrifice to build up with their children's loves the British Empire.
 Welcome constructive feedback on some conclusions from my family's unusual treatment

two generations,  mum's and mine
born to extraordinary disadvantage I have found out about only when I was thirty years old. trying to make a better life  dad disclosed the child abuse mum received. She sat next to him in front of car but didn't add anything as I recall. over the final 15 years mum told me things but I considered my asking questions likely unwelcome due to obvious impact of Fairbridge on her.after she died I received the Fairbridge file.on Grandad. it is valuable telling history.

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Re: death certificate small to read
« Reply #29 on: Tuesday 13 May 25 14:23 BST (UK) »
It's good to get things of your chest - that's a lot to carry around with you! I'm at work just now, so will get back to you later ...
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