Rhanks all for your reserearch
A nuisance that the newpapers are more keen to tell us the date of their report rather than the date of the Marriage. However it would seen to have been 28 Dec 1861 Wesleyan Chapel, Stamford, Lincs
I think Frederick Joseph Bell was possibly illegitimate or fostered by Massey Cross & his wife Elizabeth (nee Meadows) though he never appeared with them on the 1841 C (aged 12) I have neen unable to find his parents
Mary Ann Short's father was John a Farmer/Farrier
At their m on 6.7.1848 F J was recorded as 32 so b @1816, she 21, he a Porter, she a Servant, her father John a Farmer, his, Massey Cross a Porter. In 1851 C, Fred J was b @1828 Wisbech/Whittlesea. In 1861 he was b @ 1828, so m age was more like 20 rather than 32!
Death date unknown - last time recorded 1901 C in Clee with Wheelsby aged 79 - a 1903 d fits but that F J B was aged 0!