Hi there, I have a photo of the 'ruined' headstone, taken last year. It had collapsed onto another grave, but my husband & I put the pieces back onto the rightful grave, around the smaller stone with Peter's name on it. Bexley Archives have pictures of the original, when standing in St Paulinus' churchyard. The grave reference is A172 in a section immediately on your right as you go through the lytch gate and is half way down, away from the church door. Would you like a copy of the photo?
May I ask what your interest is in the headstone?
Regards,
Sarah Isnell Cook
Hastings.