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sorry cant help with the baptisms but did find this info on the cencus returns maybe some of this will help.alas not much luck with charles but plenty on emily
1871 CENCUS - EMILY WHEELER
Frederick Hughes abt 1854 Hankerton, Wiltshire, England Nephew Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
Agnes Wheeler abt 1857 Lydiard Millicent, Wiltshire, England Daughter Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
Annie L Wheeler abt 1868 Lydiard Millicent, Wiltshire, England Daughter Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
Charles A Wheeler abt 1861 Lydiard Millicent, Wiltshire, England Son Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
Emily A Wheeler abt 1864 Lydiard Millicent, Wiltshire, England Daughter Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
Frederick W Wheeler abt 1859 Lydiard Millicent, Wiltshire, England Son Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
Mary Wheeler abt 1834 Charlton, Wiltshire, England Wife Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
Mary Isabel Wheeler abt 1866 Lydiard Millicent, Wiltshire, England Daughter Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
William Wheeler abt 1821 Lydiard Millicent, Wiltshire, England Head Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
William E Wheeler abt 1870 Lydiard Millicent, Wiltshire, England Son Liddiard Millicent Wiltshire
1871 - CENCUS - CHARLES YOUNG
Jane Cavill abt 1859 Bath, Somerset, England Servant Lyncombe and Widcombe Somerset
Charles Young abt 1868 Bath, Somerset, England Son Lyncombe and Widcombe Somerset
George Young abt 1845 Chepstow, Monmouthshire, Wales Head Lyncombe and Widcombe Somerset
George Young abt 1857 Bath, Somerset, England Son Lyncombe and Widcombe Somerset
Lydia Young abt 1848 Combtloza, Monmouthshire, Wales Wife Lyncombe and Widcombe Somerset
Ruth Young abt 1869 Bath, Somerset, England Daughter Lyncombe and Widcombe Somerset
1881 - CENCUS - EMILY WHEELER - WALCOT
William C. BRUTON Head M Male 67 Bicton, Devon, England Fundholder Retired E I C Service
Elizabeth BRUTON Wife M Female 58 Bristo
l Mary TOVEY Wifes Sister U Female 62 Bristol Fundholder
Helen TOVEY Wifes Sister U Female 60 Bristol Fundholder
Margaret TOVEY Wifes Sister U Female 56 Bristol Fundholder
Mary SIMPSON Visitor U Female 55 Kendal, Westmorland, England House Property
Susanna FICH Serv U Female 21 Corsham, Wiltshire, England Domestic Servant Cook
Emily WHEELER Serv U Female 18 Lydiard Milicient, Wiltshire, England Domestic Servant Parlour Maid
THE 1891 CENCUS HAS MISPELT HER NAME BUT THIS IS DEFINATELY HER -
EMILY.A.WHEELER - UNMARRIED - 27 YRS OLD - DOMESTIC SERVANT - BORN LYDIARD MILLICENT WILTSHIRE- NOW RESIDING AT NUMBER 12 HALLAM ROAD,CLEVEDON,SOMERSET
ALSO SAME ADDRESS AS ABOVE
MARY.I WHEELER - UNMARRIED - 25 YRS OLD - DOMESTIC - BORN LYDIARD MILLICENT,WILTSHIRE
1901 CENCUS - now this is strange did your emily marry before

only this is an exact match to name and age and birth place but not as young?

Emily A Woolford abt 1864 Lydiard Millicent, Wiltshire, England Wife Purton Wiltshire
Fred Woolford abt 1864 Purton, Wiltshire, England Head Purton Wiltshire
Gladys C Woolford abt 1899 Purton, Wiltshire, England Daughter Purton Wiltshire
regards
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