Hi Biggles50,
I have looked at the match lists for my match with no connection. I have only confirmed where he ought to fit.
This is the wife of my mother's, father's , father. It is her family that migrated from Norfolk England . They have the same last name as that of the more distant ancestors of this chap.
There are three matches all part of a specific section of that family. All recent and living.
I have one with a surname from the extended tree of my match.
There is one other that should be connected to the first three, but more distantly, as there is a last name there from another earlier family. Totally different name.
Interestingly they all appear to be cousins 3rd 4th or even 2nd.
The link that you gave me says its 37% for 3rd Cousin. Much smaller percentages for others. There is also the possibility of half cousins, which could be from 2nd marriages.
This part makes sense but the matches tree just is not joining anywhere like one would expect.
It's an absolute headache!!!
At least I am on the right track in the forest.
I shall keep you posted as to what else i find here.
thanks fr those suggestions. It's shifted something in a good direction.
Essnell

Ps. I had already uploaded my Ancestry DNA to My Heritage so I checked for the match there and yes. The cM is higher and an extra segment. so 94.6 cM and 6 segs. => 3rd cousin. Essnell