This is the only census I can find for a John of the right age but no marriage in England, maybe he emigrated?
1891
John Gowans 1869 Scotland Boarder Paper Maker.
Benfieldside, Durham
This looks like his father.
Birth/baptism JOHN GOWANS 7/08/1837 Carmyllie
JOHN GOWANS/SUSAN PHILIP
Death JOHN GOWANS 54
mmn PHILIP 1892 Forfar
Maybe his mother but no clear birth/baptism, 1881 states place of birth as Carmyllie. No census after 1881 or marriage to above as far as I can see?
Death ANNIE GOWANS 60
mmn SMITH 1901 Forfar
Colin