« Reply #20 on: Thursday 20 June 24 14:03 BST (UK) »
I know the feeling of how hard it can be to tell people apart before the census and BMD era. You can get even multiple couples of a rarer surname if it is in a particular area where the surname is more common. For example two John Beesley's wed to spouses called Sarah in the same village in the mid 1700s (for example John Beesley wed Sarah Smith in 1756 and a John Beesley wed Sarah Bloggs in 1762) and you cannot be sure which John and Sarah are the parents of your ancestor, such as "Elizabeth Beesley, daughter of John And Sarah" baptised in 1765. I think in cases like these it may be a case of admitting defeat and you may never know for sure which John and Sarah were your direct ancestors.
You find a baptism in the same area 20 odd years before your namesake ancestor married but have no evidence to show it is the same person, and your constant digging just draws a blank.
Researching:
LONDON, Coombs, Roberts, Auber, Helsdon, Fradine, Morin, Goodacre
DORSET Coombs, Munday
NORFOLK Helsdon, Riches, Harbord, Budery
KENT Roberts, Goodacre
SUSSEX Walder, Boniface, Dinnage, Standen, Lee, Botten, Wickham, Jupp
SUFFOLK Titshall, Frost, Fairweather, Mayhew, Archer, Eade, Scarfe
DURHAM Stewart, Musgrave, Wilson, Forster
SCOTLAND Stewart in Selkirk
USA Musgrave, Saix
ESSEX Cornwell, Stock, Quilter, Lawrence, Whale, Clift
OXON Edgington, Smith, Inkpen, Snell, Batten, Brain