Think this is his wife and daighter in 1861 - she may not have divorced him until 1865, but she'd already moved on
Robert Norman 30 b Bermondsey, cooper
Maria Norman 56 [36] Dress maker b Kelvedon
Emma Norman 11 Daughter b Harwich
Robert is a witness at Emma Carne's wedding
Robert Lloyd Norman, single
Maria Bright, divorced
Marriage 9 Dec 1867 St. Andrew, Peckham
Emma's future husband was a witness