Good Morning.
FYI. I'm plodding on and in the interim I have been reconsidering Madge's 2 moments of lucidity:
1. Alf came from ''a well do to do family''
2. Alf had 2 sisters who where on the stage - an act something like ''the Dolly Sisters''
So I back tracked:
My main possibility is Albert Sydney Spiers, born 24 May 1900.
His Father, Edward Spiers born 1881 had 8 siblings:
William H boy
Albert boy
Sydney boy
Etty girl
James boy
Flora girl
Ernest boy
Berty boy
Edward (Albert Sydney's Father) was a Jewellery Ring Maker, by all accounts a significant position and post a long apprenticeship. In 1912 he stands accused of Murder and appears to separate from wife, Agnes around 1911/12. By the 1922 marriage of his son, Albert Sydney, although deceased, he is now a 'Licensed Victualler '
Edward's older Brother, Albert, born 1870 is a Watch case maker, then an Innkeeper, then by the 1911 census is a Goldsmith. They live in Lozells Birmingham, an upper middle class area.
Brother, Albert has a wife and 2 daughters, all 3 are actresses - the 2 daughters, Ida and Grace are in Variety Theatre - I can't find any trace of them other than the 1939 register when they are at Radnor Road, another prestigious area - but probably lodgings.
So, assuming Madge's memories were a little confused, then this is to me is a tentative link. Albert would certainly be considered 'well off' and perhaps, Alf, didn't have sisters, but 2 cousins 'on the stage'?
I also recall the claim that Alf was 'pally' with Flanagan & Allan. Could the cousins be the connection?
N.B. another recent update; Madge told my Mother that ''his family (Alf's) didn't want them to be together''. If this is Alf's wife and kids, or his siblings etc, I have no idea, but it does it suggest they probably met in the Birmingham area?