Hello Spades,

Thank you for responding. I have so far been quite cautious and told no-one about this newer information, until posting here.
Papers Past is, and always has been, a godsend to my research, and has frequently helped to fill in so many valuable missing pieces of the larger family story. It has also helped settle a few intergenerational "he said, she said" type disputes, especially in relation to the crime stories.
As you may have guessed, it's not the type of family where a lady's name is only mentioned in newsprint at the time of her society debut, engagement and death. (There have been several startling murder trials...and not just way back when.)
I suppose that I just wasn't emotionally prepared to see anything pertaining to my own childhood online just yet, having always presumed that I would be older, more calm and much less excitable - and my parents-aunts-uncles generation most likely deceased - before anything too confronting appeared.
Thank you for your sensible advice.
