Can anyone comment on the accuracy of the events I list below, it all seems very disjointed and protracted? Am I missing something?
Thomas Edmonds married Lavinia Griffiths, 17th January, 1842, Edgbaston, Birmingham, described as shoe maker and father Thomas Edmonds . His wife, Lavinia, father was Jeremiah Griffiths, gun maker
I haven’t found them on the 1841 census?
1851 census: living in Wednesbury, Staffordshire aged 33 , coal miner and toll gate keeper(born 1818, Newtown, Wales) with his wife Lavinia aged 34 and their two children Lavinia b. 1844 and Thomas b.1846
1861 census: living in Bethnal Green, London, toll collector, his wife Lavinia b.1818 and children Lavinia b. 1844, Thomas b. 1846 and James b. 1852, ( the place of birth for all 3 children is given as Wembury, Suffolk

, I think however it should be Wednesbury, Staffordshire?)
I then have a possible death certificate in 1867 for Thomas Edmonds: 30 January 1867, Springfield, Rowley Regis, boot and shoe maker ( consistent with marriage certificate), informant; Elizabeth Edmonds ( but who is she?)
1871 census: Lavinia Edmonds living at Preston, Aldbourne, Hungerford, Wiltshire, aged 53 ,widow, Turnpike Gate Keeper
1881 census: Lavinia Edmonds aged 64 , living at Conybere Road, Llandaff, Cardiff, widow and annuitant
Lavinia Edmonds dies 27th November 1890, Union Workhouse, Warrington,aged 73, widow of Thomas Edmonds, Toll Bar Keeper , Powys Street, Warrington, informant is Matilda Edmonds, daughter in law, ( wife of Thomas Edmonds born 1846)
TIA