Thanks for further replies, and apologies for my late response.
Yes I have seen the military record showing that he deserted and was then dismissed for gross misconduct in May 1898.
But the next few years are mysterious. Despite his apparent dismissal, his obituary claims that he served in the South African War, his children are said to have been born in 1900 and 1903 but the locations are unknown, and he is shown on regimental pay lists based in Kingston, Ontario between 1905 and 1908.
On 26.3.08 Ralph Edward Dawson Kent is shown as the sole passenger (recorded as “soldier”) aboard a cargo ship bound for Montevideo from Barry in South Wales. to Montevideo. But also in 1908 (exact date not shown) the London Gazette shows him (as Captain R E D Kent) resigning from the 2nd Cadet Battalion, Queens Royal West Surrey Regt. One would assume that was after the trip to South America. But then he was married in Santiago, Chile in 1911.
I'm curious about these timings, but my main concern is to try to find birth records or his son and daughter - showing location, and mother.
Complicated, isn't it. But that's why I turned to Rootschat!