He married Isabella in 1912.  Has three children between 1913 and 1916.  Disappears for a bit (Isabella on 1921 census as head of house and married).  then further child in 1926, after which he is never heard of again. (But this suggested to me perhaps a period of working abroad for several years, maybe starting another family.  Returning 1925 ish, it not working out, and him returning abroad again.)
Like you I got very excited over robert Finkle Softly, who would have fitted brilliantly. However I can find a Birth reg for Robert Finkle Softly, which rather spoilt my investigations 
