I think John Ward in 1881 may be related by marriage to Frances' mother
Family trees suggest Eliza Lymer's parents are Herbert Lymer and Elizabeth Elliott (of Langworth, Notts)
John Ward can be followed back to 1851 where he has wife Mary and a number of children, in Pleasley. The mother's maiden name on likely birth registrations is Elliott Given the ages, it's quite possible Mary and Elizabeth Elliott are sisters, so John Ward is Frances' great uncle