« Reply #21 on: Saturday 01 July 23 12:04 BST (UK) »
From what you are saying, it does look as though your friend is connected to the Cleal/Haskins family.
Perhaps the mother was mistaken as to the identity of her child's father? Or perhaps, as it looks as though Ernest and Matilda's son was married (in 1956) when your friend was born, she did not wish to make matters appear even worse than they already were by naming him.
Where have Ernest and Matilda come from? I thought we were talking about Frank and Emma being possible grandparents. Or have I lost the plot

Berks / Oxon: Eltham, Annetts, Wiltshire (surname not county), Hawkins, Pembroke, Partridge
Dorset / Hants: Derham, Stride, Purkiss, Sibley
Yorkshire: Pottage, Carr, Blackburn, Depledge
Sussex: Goodyer, Christopher, Trevatt
Lanark: Scott (soldier went to Jersey CI)
Jersey: Fowler, Huelin, Scott