I don't think we are going to agree and I will have believe what grandfather told me about the family including him having a brother named JohnWillie who emigrated to the USA and a sister Ellen who I was taken to visit with my grandfather.
That’s fine, it is your family. We all agree that Henry and Mary had those children. Your grandfather’s brother may have emigrated and returned. We are not disputing that either.
I can only urge you to check the records though. Your last one re Fred really confirms our information, I think.
You did mention that the US contact has a different father for John Bennett so perhaps you could explore their family records too.
Best wishes with your research
Heywood
