My highest Ancestry match has two children and both have been DNA tested.
Looking at and comparing the segment numbers and lengths there is no way that they appear to be related.
It is only though building a tree and getting the records found that they are found to be linked.
A Cousin of theirs also cannot be linked to them through the segment numbers and length.
Same with other DNA matches.
Going by the info Ancestry provides only allows you to go so far and making assumptions can lead to, well we all know where that can lead too.
Biggles, you are totally missing the point, which surprises me.
It is an additional tool in the armoury to help guide your research.
You make assumptions every time that you use a tool such as DNA Painter. Do you automatically declare the relationship between matches based on the highest relationship probability proposed by DNA Painter? Of course you don't, but you do use the probabilities to assess the most likely relationships and use that information to guide your research. Could the match fall within the 1% or lowest probability range that DNA Painter proposes? Yes, of course it could, otherwise the probability wouldn't exist. But would you decide to initially concentrate your research on that possibility in preference to the higher probabilities that the tool proposes? I very much doubt it, and at that point you are making educated or guided assumptions, which you use to direct the research that will hopefully find the proof you are looking for.
Assessing the number of matching segments and segment lengths is no different. It is an additional tool in the box to help guide you, more with lower level matches than the higher ones. It can help filter unknown matches of similar overall length more effectively, and guide your direction of research towards those more likely to be helpful to you with less effort.
When you look at your matches on Ancestry or elsewhere, do you make assumptions as to which matches are likely to be closer based on overall match lengths. Of course you do, or should. Does that information by itself tell you how you are related? Of course not, but you are guiding your research using assumptions based on educated principles. Again, absolutely no different.
If you still don't get it, I recommend (again) Tracing Your Ancestors Using DNA, edited by Graham S. Holton, Pen & Sword Books. It is an excellent read from the basics to more complex areas of DNA investgation, with each chapter written by a different expert in that particular field, and my copy is now very well worn and tattered from use as reference material.