Hello Ciderdrinker, sorry I'm a bit late with my reply, I've been at a family get together this afternoon to celebrate my birthday.
You've confirmed some information we already have. Stephen James 1835 is my gt. gt. grandfather who married Emma Spilsbury, that is where the Ainsworth / Ensor name crept in. There are posts on Rootschat about them a few years back.
We know that the children were split up when Stephen snr. and Elizabeth Guy died.
Thank you for the additional information which I'll make a note of.
Happy New Year.
Bearnan.