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The furthest back I can go is 1769 Thomas Ward born 17th October 1769 described as Farmer Married Janet Goar born 19th March 1778.
Where was the date of birth 17 Oct 1769 for Thomas Ward indicated as I haven't been able to locate a baptism anywhere in Scotland?
I've found the baptism of Janet...
GOAR JANNET -
19/03/1778
JAMES GOAR/JANNET MUIR FR374
(Parents)026 20 / 59 SANDAY (LADY, CROSS AND BURNESS)
I can't find a marriage for the couple, the baptisms of their children should indicate whether they were married or not?
I've found 4 Baptisms (Index attached below)...
Robert - 1802 (May be a different couple as there's a gap of almost 17 yrs prior to the next
baptism)...or there's quite a few missing in between?
David - 1819
Jannet - 1821 (Twin)
Mary - 1821 (Twin)
Annie