Hi brigidmac, thanks for your reply. F-I-L was adopted and we have his birth mothers name but not his fathers (and adoption records cannot be located which might have helped with some back story). The 2nd to 3rd matches we do have in our tree and are in contact with them but no luck so far.
Two of the most closest matches are on MyHeritage, one was also adopted at birth and the other has no information to share. They are also added in to the tree.
For the Ancestry matches they are 228cM down to 122cM. We also have a match at 225cM who is not in that same family who is non responsive to messages.
For the MyHeritage matches we have a 346cM (also an adoptee) and a 227cM (who has no information to share).
We've added everyone that can be added and also researched their lines, but no breakthrough's so far. I was just a bit surprised that not even one person on the potential birth fathers side is showing as a common ancestor.