Bredo said today :Is it possiable to find out if Mary Askam was statet a widow because Askam was considered dead, or could they have been divorced and she remarried?
William Askam was in Australia in 1886 -- My feeling is that he left his lawful wife Mary to fend for herself. I very much doubt that Mary would have tried to obtain a divorce (not easy for women at that time to divorce their husband). I believe that at some stage, Mary started to call herself a Widow for appearances sake.