I said there was no Kilkenny connection since James Reilly died and the family moved to London. That doesn't rule out all what happened before his death. The only person who stayed in Kilkenny was James's wife Ellen who died there in 1981.
James was my friend's grandfather, not father.
Thank you oldohiohome for all your work. Just a couple of points are that I don't think James was born in 1914 now and when you said 'hit by a trolley', he wasn't hit by a trolley, he worked as an Inspector on the trolley that was involved in an accident. I'm still trying to track down any newspaper that may have details.