Remember DNA is completely random, and can greatly vary. However, there is a minimum and a maximum amounts of centimorgans you can share in a relationship. It may help if you download one of the charts on line, and that will help you see if a certain relationship is feasible or not. If a group of shared matches go back to a common ancestor, then you have to start tracing his/her children, then their children etc. Draw up their trees, and it’s finding a man who was in the right locality.