Hi all,
I know it is fairly common knowledge that 100 years ago (give or take) kids often were at work by the age of 14. My Grandad has a saying that "kids these days have too much free time on their hands". In my experience with mental health, I know that if I'm not busy my brain will become over-active and 'the devil makes work for idle hands/heads' I will get depressed.
I know it is perhaps short-sighted to say that mental health illness is only caused by having 'nothing better to do', but I do know that a large part of a healthy mind is knowing that you have something to do tomorrow, the next day and the future.
Today many new mums get depressed, 'back in the day' being a mother wasn't the 'be all and end all' of their existance, they still worked to survive even while raising the children - far too busy to even contemplate their situation existentially. Even today in 3rd world countries, you see women with babies strapped to their backs pulling rice in the fields, are those mothers depressed?
Of course - there was no such thing as 'mental health care' back in those days, and if people had any issues they'd rather keep them private rather than risk being condemned. But still, I am wondering whether mental health issues could have been much less common back then, mainly due to the fact that people were too busy working and trying to survive, rather than worry about 'other' things that weren't directly related to surviving/living.
Just as a disclaimer I am a person with a lot of care/respect for people with mental health issues, it runs in my family and I also suffer myself, so I am not writing this to 'discount' mental health at all, it is just a curious thought.
TLDR; I guess I wonder if we're just too easy on ourselves these days, our minds aren't supposed to have so much idle time.