Hi Achoo,
I think you need to check your information sources.
For a veteran members post there seem to be a plethora of inaccuracies.
There doesn't appear to be any "Ball" Burials in either of the Yalding Churchyards . With all the helpful comments you have received you should find what you need.
When you have established correct names dates places etc.You will stand a much better chance of getting results . Good Luck.
