hi Andrew
Here is your 1851 census entry
HO107/ 1640/ Folio 189/ Page 10 - No 1 Batts Wood Cottage, Mayfield.
DOUCH John, Head, Marr, 27, Ag Lab, born Dallington
........... Eleanor, Wife, Marr, 26, born Wadhurst
........... George, Son, Unm, 1, born Mayfield
........... Charles, Son, Unm, 1 month, born Mayfield
No mention of Charity though?
Chris in 1066