Both Hilda & Nellie were old enough to be her mother. Both were single
Hi Carole
Hope you are well.
I was tempted to contact you but thought I would put this on the board.
Yes Hilda was born in 1905 and was in a midwife so would have been 34 when Barbara was born and 35 at the 1939 census. Nellie was born in 1913 and would have been 25 when Barbara was born. Both were certainly of childbearing age, but obviously Lilian their mother wasn't.
I understand that expectant single mums sometimes "went away" for the confinement and chidlbirth but perhaps I am presumptuous that either Hilda or Nellie would have done that. Another thought I had was that Hilda might have "brought a baby home" from a difficult situation. The 1939 census records the head of the household as "incapacitated" but I don't suppose that means anything in this situation.
It seems that my colleague needs to buy his mum's (Barbara) birth certificate, which will hopefully list at least her mother's name even ifthe father is absent from the certificate.
Thanks for your help all