Thank you again for all the research, you’ve been so helpful and I really am very grateful, I’d like to try and find that photo of Mary Emma and Arley/Harley so that I can show my mum as she has no photos of her grandfather. Mary Emma died in the Birmingham workhouse in 1919 but not sure how she ended up there, only thing we have come up with is that when her husband Arley went off to war she couldn’t financially look after herself and young son ( my grandfather) so had no choice but to enter a workhouse, where she died aged 24, and leaving my grandfather to be raised by her twin sister Kathleen in Birkenhead.
Mandy