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Surname(s) Graveyard Civil Parish Graveyard Location County
McILWAINE Ballynure Old Ballynure Toberdowney Antrim
Gravestone Inscription Erected by Matilda McIlwaine in memory of her beloved husband Henry McIlwaine who died 26th February 1897 aged 64 years Also her infant daughter Agnes who died 1879 Also her son John who died 14th April 1883 aged 19 years Also her daughter Martha [Jane] who died 11th August 1891 aged 17 years Also her son Arthur who died 8th July 1942
Comment [White marble fallen on face beside Agnes McIlwaine] [Administration of the estate of Henry McIlwaine, late of Headwood, Kilwaughter, county Antrim, farmer, who died 27 February 1897, granted at Belfast 1 October 1897 to Edward McIlwaine and Arthur McIlwaine, both of Headwood, farmers, the sons Effects £472 6s 8d.]
Surname(s) Graveyard Civil Parish Graveyard Location County
McFALL, McILWAINE Ballynure Old Ballynure Toberdowney Antrim
Gravestone Inscription Erected by Matilda McILWAINE in memory of her father John McFall who died 19th Dec 1883 aged 76 years And her mother Martha McFall who died 15th Aug 1883 aged 79 years The above-named Matilda McIlwaine died 18th April 1919 aged 80 years Also her son Henry McIlwaine died 12th June 1948
Comment [Lead lettering in white marble, in a roundel a flying dove bearing a laurel branch, spandrels of ivy] [The will of John McFall, late of Ballygowan, county Antrim, farmer, who died 18 December 1883 at same place, was proved at Belfast 28 April 1884 by Samuel McConkey and John Greer, late of Ballygowan, farmers, the executors Effects £40 10s.]