James Watterson, Private 42nd Foot, son of Leonard Watterson and Jane McLaren, married Ann Nelson Jan 29, 1869 in Glasgow. They had a daughter Helen Elizabeth Oct 14, 1870 in Glasgow. On the 1871 census, Ann, a staymaker says she is married though James is not with her. Her daughter Helen aka Ellen is with her, also her nephew Thomas Nielson/Nelson age 8. In 1881, Ann says she is a widow, and is still living with Ellen and nephew Thomas. I have never found the death of James. In 1890, Ellen/Helen dies, and she says her father James, soldier, is deceased. Witness is her cousin Thomas.
I have never found the birth of James either, abt 1838 in Scotland, likely Glasgow, or his brother David abt 1836, brother William abt 1841 or his younger brother Leonard 1851-1853. David and James are on the 1851 census, but William presumably died, and Leonard born after 1851 census.
Did James really die or did he abandon the family?
Thanks for any help.