Trying to make sense of all your responses has led me to wonder whether my grandfather John McDonald 1878-1950 and my grandmother Flora Marie Dorette Sophie McDonald 1876-1915 were first cousins, both grandchildren of Walter McDonald and Sarah McMahon
Flora Marie Dorette Sophie McDonald was my grandmother. She died on February 12th 1915 aged 37.
She was the wife of John McDonald born 1878 in Matra, India. They were married 6th September 1905 in Kensington. Her address was given as St John’s Wood Park and her parents listed as Mr John and Mrs McDonald of Scarborough. In the BMD index she appears as Mary Dorette S F McDonald.
Parents of Flora Marie Dorette Sophie McDonald
According to her Birth Certificate (September 1876) she was born Dorette Maria Sophia MacDonald on 8th September 1876 in Paddington Workhouse. Her father is listed as John MacDonald (although the cert is not signed by him), occupation Butler.
Her mother is listed as Lucy Leonora MacDonald formerly Feldmann and signs herself LL MacDonald
According to her Marriage Certificate (September 1905) her father is John McDonald (although signed by him John Macdonald), occupation Butler. In the Wedding report (apparently intended for a local newspaper) the Bride’s parents are listed as John and Mrs McDonald of Scarborough.
In 1901 there is a John Macdonald, aged 45, b. Bedale, Yorkshire, widower, living at 19 Seymour Mews, London (St. Marylebone district), occupation Domestic Butler.
In 1891 there is a John Macdonald, aged 34, b. Catterick, Yorkshire, said to be single, living at Cadwell Hall, Lincolnshire, occupation Butler.
Apart from the Lucy Leonora MacDonald appearing on the BC, I can find no references identifiable as the Lucy Feldmann/Macdonald/MacDonald/McDonald who was my great-grandmother. My suspicion is that Lucy Feldmann and John McDonald were not married and that Lucy had another family. This could explain why Flora/Florence was living with her McDonald/Macdonald grandmother in 1881/91 (if indeed this is "my" Flora!).
Reading this thread which has brought me from Castlebar to North Yorkshire, there seems to be a possibility that my grandfather's father Patrick McDonald and my grandmother's father John McDonald/Macdonald were both sons of Walter McDonald and Sarah McMahon, although I have never heard that suggestion in my family’s oral history.
"1881
Aiskew, Yorks
Sarah MacDonald widow Lodging House Keeper b Ireland
Flora -do- Granddr 5 yrs b Yorks, Bradford
1891
Scruton, Yorks
Sarah MacDonald 67 yrs b Ireland
Florance Mary -do- granddaur 13 yrs b London
I had seen an earlier marriage which I thought might fit with a birth I had seen but as you can see the details differ so not sure where/when Florence was born."
Could these could be Sarah McMahon and my grandmother? Or am I just jumping to unjustified conclusions?
Thanks again for all your help.