well certainly no Herbert seems to be around and she appears to only have Caroline but she does use the name Syred right throught o her death
in 1881 she is with a Cousin Martha Coleman the Cricketers Beer House Dorking and in 1891 she is in
the Dorking Workhouse and she died in 1892 buried Dorking St Martin I think she was born 1812 in St John the Evangelist, Wotton, Parishes not in a Borough, England
it may have been that she met a soldier called Herbert Syred but never married and Caroline was the result!