Hello everyone. Thank you for your help - it has been much appreciated. We have been extremely busy with tradies coming and going.
The death card I mentioned is a post card size properly printed memorial card with the person's information, plus a very sad poem. It is brown with gold printing. I have another from another side of the family so am assuming these were the "thank you" cards of the day sent by the family to friends and relatives who either attended the funeral or sent written condolences.
The lists of names with dates have been very useful also. Winona