Thank you shaun. I like that one scoosh. Anyway I'll try not to confuse myself, easier said than done. Mary Paterson was born/baptised 1792 , so I'm looking for John Elder born about the same time and place the one that fits is John Elder 1792 Resolis Father John Elder, mealer Mother Isobel McKeddy my only problem with this is John Elder and Mary Paterson didn't name a child Isobel. 1, Jane 1820, the mother is said to be HELEN but I have no doubt it's Mary. The second child is also Jane 1822, Jane after Marys mother Jean Bremner. 3, John 1824 . 4, Donald 1826, after Marys father. 5, and mine Charles 1828 , don't know where this comes from, 6 Margaret 1830. 7, Donald. all born Resolis. any help solving this will be much appreciated. stay home stay safe. nikitah.